F*#&. UH. DUCK.

Do you ever wonder why we make promises to ourselves we don’t keep?  Or why we put up an incredible amount of obstacles and barriers before we start something?

Is this just a way to trick ourselves out of doing anything new?

Are we just afraid of change?

I was recently listening to an episode of Seth Godin’s podcast series the STARTUP SCHOOL and something really stuck with me.  Grab your duck, it’s your duck and GO!


He was actually comparing being an entrepreneur with something like becoming a doctor.  Becoming a doctor is a set path.  School, more school, some more school, internship, graduate, boom you’re a doctor and that’s that.  Ducks definitely have to be in a row.

On the other hand, if you are doing something like starting a business, this can absolutely wreck your progress and timelines.

Grab your duck, and GO!

You don’t always have time or permission to do things in this world.  This doesn’t mean the process is haphazardly thrown together.

You still need a goal with a, let’s call it opaque, path because it’s certainly not always clear.


One is a graduation of a step-by-step process to give us permission to do something like practice medicine.

The other is a way to create and not always do what’s mainstream or what others will approve of immediately but it is your own creation and you can alter it however you see fit at any time.


Why am i babbling about doctors vs. entrepreneurs?

Most of us will say things like, “Oh I don’t have time right now to be healthy or cook,” or “Next week, I’m going to actually for a walk around the block,” or “I’m finally going to speak with a coach for some help… sometime soon…”

Do you see where this is heading? 

Maybe Not? How about this then…

“Once the kids (sports) season is over, I’ll have more time,” or this week at work i’m swamped but next week, i’ll have more time,”  or “if i can just do _______ then i’ll have time for ______.”


Hey, I get it.

You are super busy and tired and swamped at work


That’s my point.  You are going to be busy the rest of your life.

If you can’t make time now, any time at all, to… just… do… something… ANYTHING to start creating the habits you want for the lifestyle you dream of… when will you?

We get busy, put up incredible obstacles to overcome before we start, and then rely purely on optimism to get us through instead of GRIT.

Optimism is that little voice that says hey, don’t worry this New Years will be your best ever.  GRIT is the thing that slaps you in the face with reality and says HEY, you want to accomplish this then these are the things we must overcome.

Get some GRIT today… Served up daily in our Equilibrium program!

Have a great day!!


Meal Prep Sunday: Easy Buffalo Chicken Flatbread

Buffalo chicken is by far one of the most delicious things on the planet and if you don’t like it well… we can’t be friends 🤣

Okay… Okay… I’m just kiddin’ but for real this is super easy and I’m just going to get right to it.


Oven at 350 degree (F)

  • 3-5oz chicken per flatbread (so do your math there ha!)
  • Pepper Jack or sub your favorite cheese
  • 1/2 a red onion
  • 1 bell pepper
  • Avocado
  • Ranch or Greek yougurt
  • Franks Red hot sauce
  • Garlic
  • Sea salt


  1. Bake, fry, grille or however you want to prepare your chicken. What we did fry about 2lbs of chicken in avocado oil which took ~ 15 minutes or so.
  2. While the chicken is cooking you need to lay out the flatbreads your are using and lay down a base of ranch or Greek yogurt. Just a thin layer and spread it out all across to the edges. To much and you’ll have a soupy pizza and not enough = not a consistent taste.https://solfitproject.com/my-movie-1-mp4/
  3. Chop, pull apart, other the onion and bell pepper. You’ll want smaller chunks but it doesn’t have to be anything crazy. Just make the process efficient.
  4. Place the toppings down, leaving the cheese for last and spread them evenly. https://solfitproject.com/toppings_flatbread3-mp4/
  5. Once chicken is cooked, let cool and then pull apart. You’ll want to place in a big bowl and then add a generous portion of hot sauce. The more you add the hotter it will be so I’m not going to tell you how much to put in. In general the chicken should be evenly coated. Not worried about calories? Here you can also add some ghee or other butter to the mix and give it even more flavor.
  6. Bake on 350 for 10-15 minutes or until flatbread is crispy and cheese, if used, is melted.
  7. Once done, let cool, cut into 1/3 and add some avocado.




Happy Prepping!

Meal Prep Sunday: Jalapeño Bites!

With the fight going on this past weekend plus tailgating season right around the corner, we got super excited and wanted to make a dish we hadn’t in a while.

Back in college, I use to stop on the way on home after a night out at Sheetz which was right beside my apartment. I would always get a chicken Cesar salad wrap + breaded jalapeño bites.

Although my health awareness continues to grow and change some of the basics can never be forgotten. So, this week we made one of my all time favorite foods on the healthier and more denser side. Enjoy!



  • 8-12 medium to large peppers
  • ~ 1 cup Greek Yogurt or cream cheese
  • 5-7 pieces of Bacon
  • 3-5 Bratwurst
  • Spices/Herbs — Garlic and Sea Salt


  1. Fry Bratwurst on medium high until cooked completely through. (Use cooking thermometer if needed). Place a lid on and let them cook while you move on to the next step.
  2. Rinse Peppers, cut in 1/2, and clean out
  3. Preheat oven to 400-450
  4. Once Bratwurst is done set to the side and let cool. Mix Greek yogurt with a little bit of garlic together. Pull apart or dice the Bratwurst until very small and add to mixture.
  5. Line a baking pan with a tiny bit of oil and place peppers down with insides facing up.
  6. Spoon out a “glob” at a time the mixture and start filling each pepper.
  7. 1/2 the bacon pieces and wrap each pepper 1/2 in a 1/4-1/2 of bacon.
  8. Once all peppers are filled you can place in oven for 10-15 minutes or until the bacon is done.

You can also add a topper of some extra Monterey Jack cheese before you place in oven if you’re not worried about the extra calories. We chose not to this time.


I hope you enjoy these as much as I did.

Happy Prepping!

Nutrition Hack Wednesday : The Ultimate Hack You’ve Been Missing.

Now, I told you this was click bait and yet, here you are 😂. Disclosure the picture is a dessert Erin made earlier this week and is not discussed here but I’d be more than happy to post if anyone wants it ☺️.

Today, is something different from most days.  Usually, SFP gives you a piece of equipment, technology, or some other type of “hack” that can add value to your day. But today, I wanted to give you a quick word of advise wherever, you may be on your journey.

I’m a part of many different groups from basic group chats on my phone to facebook groups, and yes, even a mastermind or two.  They all have a different purpose and no, not all is specific to fitness.  Some are for confidence boosters, others are “think tanks” to get your mind going for your business, and finally yes, a good majority are health and fitness related.

With everyone having an opinion on health and fitness these days it’s more important than ever, to find qualified people to seek your answers from.  Yes, anyone can help motivate you but not everyone understands the science behind certain things.

I am by no means saying you must have a degree or certification to mean qualified but I am saying, you should seek experience and qualifications first vs. what someone does or just looks like.


Just scroll through your feed and see all the incredibly shredded, jacked, or ripped humans throughout the social world.

Take a quick look at his/her bio and BAM! GET JACKED or RIPPED  like me NOW!!!!!

and in 12 HOURS YOU CAN BE TOO!!!!!!!!! SUBSCRIBE NOW!!!!!!!!

🙄Give me a break.  If anyone of these persons is a real fitness expert they will tell you right off the bat, 21 days is garbage when it comes to BIG GOALS.

Hey, I’m all for whatever gets you 🏃moving and taking a step in the right direction but no that a quick challenge is just that, a small step to your larger goals.  I get pretty upset when I see tons of people being taken advantage of this way because the sellers know you’d give anything to look just like them.

But like most of the people 🏆showcasing their bods on social media, if you want something like that, you have to work for it.  In the kitchen, in the lab, and everywhere else around you.  Your movement is your opportunity to reshape your body and image.

So, stop scrolling and wishing and instead, start moving!


The whole point of this article is to get you from the mindset of searching for the perfect diet, workout plan, detox, or whatever else everyone is trying to sell you on.

Pick something!

Literally, just pick one thing as in a type of diet or workout and try it out for 30 days with no exceptions to see how you feel.  If you feel great, awesome, stay with that.  If you feel ok then change-up a few things.  If you feel like poop, then try something else.  We (myself included) get into this mindset where we see someone else doing something or looking amazing and think oh hey! they must have the secrete.

You want to know the actual secrete?


The perfect plan is completely dependent on the individual, his/her goals, current biological status, and more!  What works for you in your 20s may not even come close to work whats for you in your 40s.  If you once ate pizza and never gained a pound but now look at a twix and gain 12lbs, well somethings going on now that needs to be addressed which was present before.

Instead of drooling over others, why not become the ultimate detective for yourself. And of course share your experience but again know, just because it worked for you doesn’t mean it will work for the next person or anyone else in the world, for that matter.



Instead of working in absolutes like paleo = good/bad, high carbs = good/bad, sugar = good/bad, I believe we should be accepting of all and understand not everyone has the same goals or the same biology driven their fundamental processes.  Also, youR body doesn’t really work that way so why should you.

Biologically speaking, if you ingest a substance, the substance is broken down or not broken down which typically sets off a chain of events.  Your body doesn’t go, oh hey! everyone, sugar’s back, let’s close the doors on it because sugar is a bad substance.

Your body sees sugar as fuel and if you don’t need that fuel right away, the body wants to store that fuel for later use.

Problems then arise when all we keep doing is giving our body fuel we don’t need.  This is why most diet plans end up working.  They all usually have the same specs: eat more veggies, limit either cars or fats and then the opposite macro will be higher while your protein goal may vary depending on your exercise level and type.

What my colleagues don’t want you to know is they don’t have secrete workouts, secrete diets, or anything else you can’t easily access from the internet these days.  In general, grab a simple workout plan to follow for 12 weeks.

Institute healthier eating or pick one of the many diets out there to try for 30 days.  I usually suggest starting on the diet for 1-2 weeks then starting a 12-week protocol but that’s ultimately, your call.

Lastly, I will, however, suggest if you are at an elite level, an athlete, very serious about your workouts, health, etc. hands on coaching is where you need to be.  And the difference between a good and a great coach can make or break your peak performance.

*If you’d like more information, check out our programs EQ-37 Athena for the ladies and EQ-Hercules for the fellas.


Meal Prep Sunday: 10-minute Chicken Salad Remix

Every day Cameron and I are cooking in the kitchen together is a great day! Be sure and check out the video of how to at the bottom


I have been craving some chicken salad so we decided to make our healthy version today instead of, making a mayonnaise-based mush


pie from the store.
Super easy though. All you need is some:
  • plain yogurt
  • chicken
  • celery
  • grapes
  • sliced almonds
    • If you prefer walnuts or pecans, do you, boo-boo 😋

Whenever we make chicken 🍗salad 🥗
or any food that is intended to be cold but needs meat 🔥cooked, we cook the meat hours before hand.

  1. This allows the meat to cool 💨 and be handled
  2. Splitting up the cooking doesn't make it seem like such a hassle 👍
  3. Plus we make tons of extra chicken for other meals too! ✅

In this case, while Cameron and I were making breakfast this morning we threw our seasoned chicken in the oven. So when it came time to make our chicken salad in the afternoon the meat was already cooked. We just needed to cut/shred it.

Slice the celery into 1/4 size pieces and grapes (into halves or fours, I do both). Mix the shredded chicken, sliced celery, slices grapes and pre-sliced almond in a bowl then add the plain yogurt on top.

It's SOOOOOO good. I was a little


skeptical of the plain yogurt at first but it has become one of my favorite cooking ingredients!


Ingredients we used:
  • 19oz (3) chicken breasts
  • 2 (M) celery stalks
  • 228g Sliced grapes (~30)
  • 70g sliced almonds
  • 7oz Plain yogurt  (I use very little but you can use as much or as little as you want, experiment!)

The above ingredients made 5 servings of 8 ounces 🙂

Enjoy 🙂
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Nutrition Hack Wednesday: Why You Need Macros in Your Life!

✳️Once you hit a certain point, you can pretty much know what and how much food you are consuming within a certain range.  

For instance, a professional golfer 🏌️‍♀️can hit a shot with a club and probably within 5-10 yards tell you how far he hit the ball.  An architect could most likely look at a room and judge the square feet of that room pretty accurately. And a professional gamer 🎮 could probably guess within 1-2 energy drunks 😈, how many they have consumed within a 24 hour period.  HAHA!

I joke 🃏 because I used to be a hardcore gamer (at least I think) so, I know energy 😵 drinks can be consumed at a crazy, rapid rate without even thinking about the consequences.


Briefly, macros refer to the 3️⃣ main macronutrients being carbohydrates, fats, and proteins.  Each has a certain caloric value represented per gram.  For instance, 1g of fats = 9️⃣calories, 1g of carbohydrates = 4️⃣ calories, and 1g of protein is also = 4️⃣ calories.

So, if you eat a 🍔 burger with 30g of fat, 40g of protein and 25g of carbs, all you have to do is multiply those number by the associated caloric value per gram and boom! you have the total calorie number.  

Although, we’ve discussed before, all calories are not the same and 10g of sugar 🍦 (carb) does not affect the body the same weight 10g of sweet 🥔 potato.

Macro counting can seem like a daunting task 😳 at first but the benefits ✅ are huge for those wanting to lose weight, gain muscle mass, train for a competition, or increase optimal performance.  Hitting your total caloric intake for the day is great 👍 but if the ratios of Carbs to Protein to Fats is all ❌ jacked up, you may not be seeing the results you want, if any at all.

If you’re an everyday person who doesn’t really care about macros 🤷‍♀️ then I would still suggest counting your nutrient intake for at least 3️⃣0️⃣ days.  This would allow you to actually see what and how much of each nutrient is in a food item and if you are abundant or deficient in any area.

I just recently ❗️started tracking my own again to see how good I was only my total intake and to be honest, I was pretty spot on.  This is 1 part pure luck, but also, from years of experience counting my macros and weighing food day after day.  This process becomes a habit 🐾 just like anything else and really doesn’t take a lot of time.


With the advances of most tracking apps, all you really have to do is snap 📷 a photo of the food item eaten or added to the menu and enter the quantity.  Since I just started back tracking, I wanted to see what apps were out there and which ones had improved.  Search engines, app store, and some more revealed different results.  I downloaded and even bought 🙄 a few of the apps just to see how easily they integrated with different features.

Long story short, MyFitnessPal is still one of the best and easiest to use.  🔥 Did I mention the basic features are all FREE!  This is all I need and it works perfectly.  The only benefit for me, would be to pay so it does math for me.  The free version 🚫 won’t say you have 40g of carbs left.  

Instead, the app just shows you how many you’ve consumed (80g) and what your total for the day is (120g).  So you just have to know 120-80 = 40g left for the day.

I also, subscribed to Avatar Nutrition to see what a computer based macro coach was really like.  The price is $9.99/month and asks you to weigh-in and take simple measurements to adjust your macros accordingly.  

This seems like a cool 😎 concept and they use IIFYM style of “flexible dieting” to get your where you want to be.  The downside for me is they don’t have a “low carb” setting and I can’t adjust my ratios where I’d like them.

I decided to pay and subscribe with the program because you obtain access to the
Facebook group where you can chat with tons of other people and the founders directly.  To me, that’s worth the $10 alone.  Downside though, they only integrate with 1 specific macro counting app and it costs $2.99 to download. 

So, I downloaded it and became instantly frustrated with the process because it took so long to log food plus, the macro nutrients were off.  🏃Quickly, I went back to the App Store and downloaded MyFitnessPal again, logged my macros, and was right at home pretty easily.


All-in-all I don’t think most people need to weigh food for the rest of their lives.  I will, however, stress the importance of macro counting if you are trying to optimize your performance, lose/gain weight, or anything else on this spectrum.  You need to tailor specific ratios based on what you are trying to get out of your body and specifically, your body type.   Even if you’re not on one of these paths, it’s still a great idea to track for at least 30 days so you know

  1. How many calories you are actually ingesting
  2. Where you are abundant or deficient in macros/micro nutrients
  3. What ratios work best for your individual body type

Remember the one-size-fits-all approach isn’t the way to go.  Try a specific diet out, see your ratios first hand, and find one that works for you.  I would suggest:

  1. Seeing your doctor before trying anything out especially if you had or have any conditions.  Plus doing some blood work to see how the dietary changes really do affect you after 30 days.
  2. Looking for a Dietary Coach if you need help.

I truly hope this article helps.  Do you have a better way to track macros?  Do you even bother with it?


Happy Training 🙂




Weekend Shenanigans: Life changing experiences

Hey ya’ll 🙂 I hope you had a great weekend. This was the first weekend since I moved to Florida where it was sunny all weekend for once.  For the most part, it has been monsooning everyday since I crossed the border into Florida.  Needless to say, I was super pumped!

Per our Saturday ritual, we went to the Farmer’s Market. When we got to there I was super cranky because I slept in a little more than I wanted to and we didn’t have a lot of time BUT Cameron reminded me to enjoy the time we did have and not dwell on what we can’t change. This is something I constantly have a challenge with but it’s so true. Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t. Most of the time, it’s just being positive and enjoying the day.

​We wound up having such a good time just like always, even though we didn’t have as much time. I got my fruit of the week!!! I have no idea what’s it’s called but it tastes amazing. It was a little pricier than I anticipated and harder to deal with. The people selling them told me you have to wait until certain pieces fall off and you have to do what the fruit says… if you force it, it won’t taste good. Soooo that was probably a one and done.

We got some amazing spices and my favorite part of the day, a treat from the bakery! We got the vegan bars again that are little pieces of heaven. That prompted us to make our own on Sunday night. That recipe is on our site!! 🙂

In the afternoon, we watched one of my friend’s play soccer. She plays for a semi pro league where we live and that really took me back. I wish I had my cleats! I just wanted to run on the field.

That evening, Cameron and I explored an area called Tradition. It’s an up and coming area, similar to a place we used to go to all the time in South Carolina. Favorite part of the weekend, sitting in the park in Tradition. We just sat and enjoyed the night while brainstorming ideas to share with you guys.

Our weekend was pretty action packed. Sunday we went about an hour South to check out one of the malls. We only went into two stores – Oil & Vinegar and Teavana. I think this officially makes me an adult 😛 I LOVED these stores. We picked out an awesome Lemon Oil and a Wild Cherry Balsamic Vinegar. I am so excited to have a salad with this blend!!

After that we walked by Teavana. First of all, it smelled AMAZING. Secondly, Cameron has started to drink tea instead of coffee lately so we talked with one of the people who works there – the tea guy with the bow tie!! He was literally the coolest and most knowledgeable tea wizard ever. Cam got some enegery boosting tea and I got some sleepy time tea. We each got these personal tea making cups. I used it Sunday night and I am definitely going to use it everynight.

The last part of our weekend, before our Sunday night baking fun, we went to Whole Foods. Have you ever been there?! Before Sunday, I knew about it but I just thought it was jsut another grocery store. JUST ANOTHER GROCERY STORE!? HA! I literally felt like I time traveled to a different universe. Cam and I always look for foods that have things that will fuel our body and not harm. This store literally had all of that and more. I don’t even know how long we were there but it was awesome. We of course got groceries but also random things like homemade soaps.

I am just seriously amazed with this place. Several times I have gone to multiple stores to find something I was looking for like agave or dark chocolate I can bake with that’s over 70 percent cacao. They had like five shelves for each of those things!!!! Then there were Halo Top flavors I’ve never even heard of. There fish was actually wild and not farm raised. It was hard to find non organic fruits and veggies, which usually never happens. (We bought the organic ones but you get my point).

Did I spend more money than I wanted to? Absolutely. But I was super happy with the products I got. You get what you pay for and I will definitely be back.

Have a great week friends! And don’t forget, live in the moment – don’t dwell on things you can’t change and focus on fueling your body.

Fuel your boyd right.